Decide for your best or for the best.

When you have to decide to do or change someting in your life because your situation is hurting or in other ways wronging you and others, you can ask for help. Counseling with an objective professional should make this a process well thought of. A good counselor includes every aspect of the situation, the whole picture must be looked at and thought of. Values, believes, context, history, desires, pupose, possibilities, growth, and most important love. When a catch 22 is all that you have got, whatever you decide on, there is always pain involved, you have a chance to work your way up to a higher level of consiousness. A rough and bumpy ride awaits you and you just have to trust your vehicle. Your awareness will expand and with this greater awareness you can decide wether to decide on what is best for you or decide for the best outcome in general.