Repeating Childhood

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Do you know this phenomena of men or women always falling for the wrong guy? Some people just seem to attract the ones that hurt them? I had a chat with this guy yesterday on a terrace while sipping wine in the sunshine, he explained to me what I had allready learned at the Dutch academy for Psychotherapy. He knows that he falls for the “wrong women” and by knowing so he is now capable of saying No to them. Logically my question to him would be something like; if you know your self so well, why don´t you change your perception so that you decide on a nice woman. His answer was so clear, he simply said; I do not feel attracted to nice women. I repeat my childhood, live the life that I know. Even though this is a happy guy, full of life and enjoying every moment, I cannot help but feel a shadow of sadness. My believe is that you can change your vision on life in order to overcome certain apects of your childhood that have helped create your personality. No one can change your history but you can change how you deal with your experiences in a way that they do not limit your life now. This kind of implicates that life could not be fully lived without sharing with a partner. That is a mayor assumption that I hold, and I will find out about why I hold that assumption. Maybe my western thinking or conditioning…